Mooning Your Honey

The custom of
newly wedded
couples having
a ‘honeymoon’
together is an
old one, and is
found in texts
as old as the
5th Century A.D.

Originally, it was
a term referring
not so much to
a trip, but more
to a time period
(roughly the first
month or so)
when the newlyweds
were the most
passionate and
interested in each
other.

As famed
British essayist
Dr. Samuel Johnson
remarked on it
(in the 1750’s):
“The first month
after marriage,
when there is
nothing but
tenderness and
pleasure.”

In this frame of
reference, it also
inferred that the
love in marriage
inevitably would
go the way of the
phases of the moon –
– waning over time.

When the moon
was full,
passion burned
at it’s brightest –

and the
official drink,
( an aphrodisiac ,
of course ) –

— usually mead —

(an alcoholic
beverage made
from fermented
honey )

was consumed
to encourage
connubial delight,
“reduce the pain
of the bridal bed”,
and limit inhibitions.

(Thus, the idea
from which the
term ‘honey-moon
or ‘hony moone’ in
Old English is
thought to have
been derived.)

The other phases
of the moon were
also thought to be
symbolic of stages
in marital joy and
happiness, as the
‘ moon quarters ‘
vintage cards on
today’s post
(from around 1910 )
clearly demonstrate.

The whole ‘take a
trip together and
get know each other’
form of the honeymoon
is a relatively recent
innovation —

There are references
found in French and
English sources of
it beginning in the
19th Century–

But, it was a custom
that, until the 1900’s
at least, was reserved
for the upper crust
and wealthy —

— working people
rarely had the
resources for
such an expensive
extravagance.

Nevertheless,
it seems to have
proven to be
a very constructive
modern custom —

Studies have
shown that
couples who
take a honeymoon
trip at the
beginning of
their marriage
are more likely
to stay together.

It makes
sense to me.

So, young couples-
here’s to LOVE –
and to a bangin’
honeymoon.

Errrr….

Umm…

well,
ok,
you know
what I mean.

!!! HOY !!!

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PS: For more on
this subject, click here.

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Friday Mailbag

Just sorta
reminding ya,
cause I know
you are probably
already well
aware of it ……………

ITS
FRIDAY !!!!

Of course,
you might
just figure I’m
stating the
obvious,
and
I’ll admit
that we
do that
a lot
around here……..

But it also
means that
it’s time for
our weekly
Mailbag post,
brought to you
by :

well,
nobody in
particular,
since we
don’t accept
advertising.

I suppose
it might
still seem
a bit suspect,
me posting a
Friday Mailbag
full of commercial
cigarette cards,
but I assure
you that the
company that
produced them
didn’t do a
damn thing
for me-

Hell, I don’t
even think
they’re
in business
anymore.

Nope,
actually,
I’m sure
of it.

It was Frishmuth’s
Tobacco Company,
based at 17th and
Lehigh Avenue in
Philadelphia —

and these cards
are from an
1887 series
called
“Occupations
of Women”….

and
they went
out of business
around 1910.

( Just a
footnote
in history,
the founder
of the
company
jumped to his
death from
the 50th floor
of a Philadelphia
hospital…)

Yes,
the cards
are highly
collectible,
now that
you mention
it.

Colorful,
beautifully
drawn, and
carefully
lithographed.

Rare?

I
dunno
about
that….

But
I think
you can see
why I like
’em.

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!! HOY !!!

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Friday Mail Bag

We like to mix
up the vintage
post cards
on the Friday
Mail Bag,
usually….

Ya know,
maybe a general
theme without
too much
emphasis on
whether we’re
coloring between
the lines or not.

It gives us a
chance to share
some cool/strange
stuff that doesn’t
make the other
regular categories
of posts on this
blog for one
reason
or another…..

Then,
sometimes,
we shake the
whole damn
thing up and
it actually makes
sense as a cohesive
package once in a
while.

But since we don’t
want THAT to ever
become a habit
around here
(Heaven Forbid)
we’ll start trying to
do better about
keeping the Friday
Mailbag as free of
coherence and
congruity as possible.

(Which isn’t really
hard for us, truthfully)

Incoherence can
be a real blessing
sometimes when
you think about it.

Still….
there may be
some minor
method to
our madness,
yet.

!!! HOY !!!

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Meet Lady Brett

If you’re a Ernest
Hemingway fan
like I am, you probably
remember the character
in ” The Sun Also Rises
named Lady Brett Ashley.

Or, maybe you saw the
movie based on the
book – in which the
character of Brett was
played so wonderfully
by North Carolina’s own
Miss Ava Gardner.

Now, you have always
probably considered
that book ‘fiction’,
and of course, it
technically is –

– but many people
who knew Hemingway
claimed that it was
taken almost verbatim
from his real-life
experiences at the
festival of 1925 in
Pamplona, Spain.

(see photo at bottom)

And more especially,
the nature of the
interplay between
characters:

Hemingway’s
conflicted anti-heroine
Lady Ashley Brett was
an almost biographical
description of a soon-to-be
divorced socialite named
Lady Duff Twysden —

— accurate even down
to the two lovers
she brought in tow
with her to Spain that
year – Harold Loeb
(represented in the book
as Robert Cohn ) and
Pat Guthrie ( as Mike
Campbell ).

Not only did
this situation
create a lot of
tension by itself,
but the real Lady Duff
seemed to love drinking,
partying and letting the
fur fly just as much as
the ‘fictional’ Lady Brett:  

– another
“Lost Generation” writer,
Donald Ogden Stewart,
who was also with Hem’s
group that traveled to
Pamplona that season
(and is represented as
Bill Gorton in the book )
described the drama :
We were all
in love with
her – it was
hard not to be.
She played her
cards so well
.”

The attraction that
(the already married)
Hemingway himself felt
for the rather randy Lady
Duff was underplayed in
the novel, by writing the
protagonist Jake Barnes
as a wounded war veteran
who’s physically incapable
of consummating his
relationship with Lady Brett.

Yet- even aspects of the
dialog in the book were
said to have been derived
from real life –

And in the end,
after the book was
published, Stewart
claimed he was surprised
it was being called fiction
at all, as it seemed to him
as :
nothing but a report
on what happened …
journalism
.”

Read it,
and let me
know what
you think !

!!! HOY !!!

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Photo, 1925 Spain 
1: Hemingway
2: Harold Loeb
3: Lady Duff
4: Hadley (Hem’s wife)
5: David Stewart
6: Pat Guthrie

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Getting A Good Tan

Ladies……

Let’s just say
your husband
has been
a naughty boy.

Tsk, tsk.

You don’t wanna
trade him in
for a new model,
necessarily,
but you feel like
you need to
straighten him out.

What are your options?

Well, one that might have
been used by your great-
grandmother might just
surprise you.

An article in the:
New York Evening World
from
 July 08, 1916 leads
off with this leadline:

” One of them’s a cop,
but wifey tans him with
a bread board just the
same, and another gets
licked with a lemon
squeezer when he
misbehaves. “

It goes on to say:

“The controversy was
started by an innocent
little document from
Mrs. McC of Brooklyn,
who declared frankly
that grown persons,
are better for the
occasional whipping,
adding that her own
husband had been
changed from a drinker
and a smoker into a
model man with a
good job, money
saved and a fine
home, by the judicious
application of these
wifely principles : 
Spare the rod and
spoil the husband
was this matron’s recipe
for domestic happiness. “

In turn, the husbands
wrote back, complaining
of the trend:

“Last night I stayed out
rather late at my club,
and when I returned
home I received the
surprise of my married
life when my wife handed
me the first spanking I
received since my boyhood
days.

“This morning at breakfast
I remonstrated with her
and attempted to stick
up for my rights, whereupon
I was taken from my meal
and given another intro-
duction to my wife’s riding
crop. A spanking at night
is bad enough, but to start
the day with one is simply
indescribable.”

Ahem.

I pass the highlights
of this little article
along with no comment,
but I’d be interesting in
hearing yours.

!!!! HOY !!!!

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Friday’s Mail Bag

It’s the
Friday Mailbag !

Hmmm….

Ok,
so mebbe
that’s not
the most inspiring
way to open up
a post ….

Maybe we
need to
add some
bells and
whistles.

Or some fine
kazoo music.

I’ve known folks
that say the kazoo
is a Southern
invention-

— and there actually
is a kazoo museum
near Camp Legeune —

But it was really
a French innovation –

– derived from an
instrument called the
flûte à l’oignon ,
or onion flute .

The Irish call it a
“eunuch flute” –
the only major
difference is that
you hum across
those things as you
hold it horizontally,
(thus, the term ‘flute’)
and the kazoo is
played more like
smoking a cigar.

Just remember,
please…..

— never hum into
your Cohiba.

Have some
respect, man.

Happy Weekend !

Cards Of Few Words

With the large
varieties of
available designs
on the market,
picking out the
perfect postcard
back in the
1900’s for an
occasion or message
was often a very
daunting task –

– anyone who’s had
to pick out just the
right Valentines Day
card probably knows
exactly what I mean.

But, even more so
in the case of a
turn-of-the-century
postcard –

– there were strict
postal service rules
that regulated the
size, not to mention
where and how
much space was
left for a personalized
message by the sender.

( of course, users were
free to write all over
the design, and they
frequently did. )

So, while cramming
a lot into the display
area on the card
might be one
approach for a
publisher, while
another might be to
keep the selling point
of the card –
– the joke, or subject –
as generic and simple
as possible.

By doing that,
the seller had
an opportunity
to appeal to a
wider market –

– buyers could get
creative and choose
to send a particular
design under a
variety of different
circumstances.

But, in order for that
to work, the punch line
has to make sense and
match the art, it has to
have eye appeal, and it
has to tell a story.

There were thousands
of possible themes to
work with..

.. and could be drawn
from everyday life,
art, theatre, history,
even gardening, and
of course, LOVE. 

I’ve seen a lot of
great early-20th-century
cards like that, and
today, we’ll feature
a few of the more
interesting ones.

I’m not at all sure
some of the
one-liners
would sell today,
but they are all
charming in their
own way.

!! HOY !!

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